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4 Ways to Create the Perfect Bedroom for Intimacy

The bedroom is a special place where we can unwind, relax, and rejuvenate. It’s also a place where we can spend time with our partners and really connect with them in an intimate way. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or you’re just getting to know someone new, the way your bedroom looks and feels can have a big impact on your love life. With that in mind, read on to find out how to create the perfect bedroom for intimacy rather than having one that turns everyone off. 


The right lighting can really set the tone for a memorable and passionate sexual experience with your partner, so this is a great place to start when it comes to creating an intimate bedroom. Start by choosing soft, warm lighting rather than anything too bright or harsh. Install dimmer switches or lamps with adjustable settings so you can choose the ideal lighting setting for you and your partner and make it as cozy as possible. 

Candles can also make a great addition and can be the best way to create a wonderful atmosphere using lighting. If you pick scented candles, you can add to the experience and make it even more sensual, so this could be a good way to make the room even better – you can combine light and scent.  


If people are planning to have sex in a bedroom, the majority of them are going to use the bed for the act itself, so it’s wise to invest in comfortable bedding that doesn’t scratch or itch or distract you in any way. It should feel good, and, if possible, it should make the experience even more intense – something like silk sheets can do this for some people, for example. Add some plush pillows and a cozy duvet, and the bed becomes a place where you can really enjoy being with your partner. 

You should always keep your bed clean and free of clutter, like discarded clothes. It needs to look inviting to create the right atmosphere, and if you have to take time to remove a lot of stuff or the sheets aren’t fresh, it’s not going to be something that you or your partner find exciting. It might even kill the mood. 

Good Storage 

Storage might seem like an odd thing to suggest when you’re trying to make your bedroom a more intimate and sexy space, but it can help a huge deal. Take the scenario we mentioned above with the cluttered bed; if you had good storage, you wouldn’t have this problem, as everything would have its own place and your bedroom would be tidier – and therefore a more welcoming, attractive space to be. 

Having good storage also means you can store your sex toys safely and conveniently. No one will see your collection from My Amazing Fantasy unless you want them to, and you’ll always know where everything is when you want to use something. 


Music is a great way to set the mood, so if you want to make the bedroom a more intimate place to be, make sure you’ve got the ability to play music. You might invest in some speakers, for example, so you can connect your phone and play music while you spend time with your partner. 

If this is something you want to do, create a playlist ahead of time so all you have to do is press play, and you can relax and enjoy the moment. 

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John Winter
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Written by John Winter